The Filipina Wife

John & ChecheAs discussed in the previous post, Filipinos are amiable, easy-going, cheerful, happy people by nature. They bear their burdens with stoical equanimity and are accepting of hardships and differences.

The Filipina wife is in a class of her own. I have traveled extensively all over the world, have lived on three continents and I can unequivocally aver that the Filipina makes the best wife for any man but especially for an older westerner. I will highlight some of the reasons for this conclusion, but first, the requisite disclaimer.

Not all Filipinas are alike. There are plenty of schemers and gold diggers, opportunists, users, takers and con artists. There are self-serving sycophants here just as there are in any culture. However, that is not the norm. If you look for your Filipina wife in bars, mega-malls, free Internet dating sites, you might get disillusioned and disappointed. There are plenty of horror stories out there. If, on the other hand, you look for a woman with solid values, traditionally raised, “simple girl” typically not from a big city but from the provinces, your chances will be immensely improved.

“Simple” here refers not to the woman’s mental capacity but to her spectrum of needs. It is an adjective they themselves use to describe their lifestyle, lack of make up, adornments and needfulness. A “simple” girl bears the characteristics I describe below, as contrast to “city girls”, “bar girls” and “mall walkers”.

Devoted

First and foremost, the Filipina wife is devoted — to her husband, to her family, to her large extended family and to God. It seems that there is nothing she would not do for her brood, even at the point of self-sacrifice. “Circumstances don’t matter, I am your wife and I will be by your side no matter what” seems to be their motto. A Filipina wife (asawa in Cebuano and Tagalog) will work tirelessly all day long, never asking for anything, with a smile on her face and a song on her lips. They will endure almost any condition without demands. Not only will an asawa not ask you to help with the dishes or other housework, she will insist that it is her job.  Continue Reading…

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One comment

  1. This is not the good old USA, so, don’t be afraid of those really gorgeous and pretty girls, they are not like what you find in the US. I have found that the pretty girls are just as approachable as the not so pretty ones, so don’t think you have to settle for a less attractive girl just because you always did in the US, it isn’t like what you are used to there. Just look at my situation, I married a very attractive girl in 2004 and now, 7 years later, we are still going strong. I met here at age 59 mine that is, she was only 19 at the time, yet very mature for her age. And she picked me out of all the others she was chatting with and some of them were a lot younger than I was. She discontinued all here chatting except with me, and she was very forthcoming about who she had been chatting with before she decided she wanted to spend the rest of my life with her. I say it that way since I am much older than she is. But you know the age difference has had no adverse affects on our marriage or relationship. Try living with a woman and never having a single argument, it’s heavenly to be sure.

    Also I have found the best place to meet girls most likely to remain loyal to you are in the SM malls here. Just go shopping often, try shopping for shoes or mens clothing, there are girls everywhere in these stores, and most are available and are not afraid to ask if you are free. I often go shopping by myself and have several times had girls ask me for my phone number or smile at me as they walk past. It’s just the opposite in the US the guys are smiling but the girls look the other way. Here the all look directly at you. At least that is my experience here in the malls. Come take my tour of Cebu and I will show you how it is done.

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